The day

Tuesday 10 November 2026. Everyone is welcome at the ceremony in Aylesbury. Drinks and dinner in London are for the guests we’ve invited to the evening.

Timetable

  1. 12:30 Ceremony John Hampden Room, Aylesbury Register Office Everyone
  2. 15:30 Photos in London By the Westminster Bridge arches, across the river from Big Ben. Mostly the two of us, but join us for a group photo if you can make it. Everyone welcome
  3. 16:30 Drinks A pub near Big Ben or the National Liberal Club. We’ll confirm which. Evening guests
  4. 18:15 Dinner National Liberal Club, Whitehall Evening guests

Aylesbury to London

We know the time between the ceremony and the photos is tight. There are two easy ways to get to London.

Via Tring, like us
We’re driving to Tring and taking the train from there to London Euston, because trains from Tring run more often. You’re welcome to do the same.
Straight from Aylesbury
Take the train from Aylesbury to London Marylebone and meet us at the photos when you arrive. These run about once an hour, so check the times before you set off.

Getting there

Aylesbury

John Hampden Room

Aylesbury Register Office
County Hall, Aylesbury HP20 1XF

The ceremony, 12:30. Everyone is welcome.

On the ground floor of County Hall, in the town centre, a short walk from Market Square. There is step-free access.

  • Please arrive at 12:20, no earlier than 10 minutes before the ceremony, and please don’t be late.
  • There’ll be a guest book to sign at the ceremony, so leave us a few words.
  • Parking: the multi-storey above Waitrose, by the Waterside Theatre, the car park at Aylesbury station, or on-street parking in the town centre. Allow a few minutes to find a space.
Directions

Westminster

Westminster Bridge arches

South Bank, across the river from Big Ben
London SE1 7GL

Photos from 15:30. Mostly the two of us, with a group photo on the green nearby. Join us if you can.

  • It’s outdoors, so bring an umbrella in case it rains.
Tube
Westminster, then walk across Westminster Bridge
Rail
Waterloo, about a 10-minute walk
Directions

London

National Liberal Club

1 Whitehall Place
London SW1A 2HE

Dinner at 18:15, for our evening guests.

It’s a private members’ club, so a member has to sign guests in. We’ll all go in together, so please don’t go to the Club on your own.

Tube
Embankment, Charing Cross or Westminster
Rail
Charing Cross or Waterloo, a few minutes’ walk
River
Embankment or Westminster Pier
Directions

What to wear

For the evening, the Club asks for smart attire. Here’s their guidance in short. In Aylesbury, wear whatever you’re comfortable in. November in London can be wet, so bring an umbrella.

Ideal
Suits, or a tailored jacket with smart trousers. Smart dresses, skirts, blouses or jumpsuits. Smart shoes. Ties are optional, and colour and jewellery are welcome.
Also fine
Chinos or cords, dark unfaded jeans, a roll neck or polo under a jacket, smart cardigans, discreet smart trainers.
Please avoid
Sportswear and sweatpants, faded or stonewash denim, cargo trousers, sports trainers, men’s sandals, denim or biker jackets.

At the Club

If you need a special diet, for example gluten-free, please let us know as soon as you can.

Coats and bags
Coats go to the ground-floor cloakroom and larger bags to reception. Small handbags are fine in the rooms.
Photos
Take as many of us as you like, just keep it discreet and don’t include other members or guests without asking.

Questions

Email whichever of us speaks your language.

Tomasz

Polish and English

tom@herbasz.uk

Trường

Vietnamese and English

justindotruong@gmail.com

Gifts

Having our family and friends with us is the biggest gift. If you’d still like to give something, go ahead, we won’t complain.

You could also donate in our name to Stonewall Housing, a London charity that supports LGBTQ+ people facing homelessness.

Donate to Stonewall Housing